Sometimes you will think of should I care about this? she? he?
Sometimes you will think of am I right ? am I wrong?
Sometimes you will think of my action will hurt her? or him?
Sometimes you will think of should I tell? or not tell?
Sometimes you will think of is she/he angry or hurt??
Sometimes you will think of should I help? or should not?
Sometimes you will think of should I give up? or not?
Sometimes you will think of many many possible things,
and at the end you might choose to be selfish,act like yourself, choose and do what you want
or, you might choose to make others people happy by giving up your choices and support others people.
Hmm..Sometimes you might happy because of you make others people happy, sometimes you might feel sad, feel like you not like yourself, sometimes you might feel like you r selfish.
So, what is the right choice? Maybe you just need to be yourself.
If you choose to make others people happy, then don't complaint you don't have your choice, don't complaint what much you give them but what you get in return.
If you choose to make yourself comfortable, then don't think of they will get angry or hurt.
Nobody is responsible to treat anyone good or must obey or change for who.
If the person treat you good, appreciate it.
If the person doesn't, respect him/her. It does not mean the person don't care about you.
Everyone got their own choices, freedom, they can choose, and you too.
if you complaint about they are selfish, coz they act like their way,din;t care about others,
but at the same time, you are selfish too, coz you want them give up their way and follow what you wanted.
So, who is right? and wrong now?
Learn to respect others, your life will easier. :)
Doesn't it?
Just want to say that, sometimes you tolerance to people is good, but at the same time,
don't forget about your own feeling too, treat yourself better.
This is your life, don't live under others people's expectation.
Balance between treat others good and treat your own good. XD
Of cause, it is not good to be self centre and selfish all the time too.
In a friendhip, or love, or family, it is a two ways interaction. Both side also need to give.
But of cause, I believe that the true one will always stay with you, until the end, no matter who are you.
Acceptance is the main element in love(all kidn of love), right?
So, RESPECT, ACCEPT, WILLINGNESS DO WHAT YOU DECIDE TO DO, AND BALANCE BTW GIVE AND TAKE!!!
Hehe..Just suddenly think of this..people, just appreciate what you have and don't demand so much from others.
huhu!! give n take!! agree~~ =D
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